Pengertian Taaruf :)

Assalamualaikum.. holla~~ :D

Okay, post kali ini mengenai ta’aruf.. saya akan menyatakan maksud dan proses2nya okay? ^^

Maksud Ta'aruf:

Taaruf ni dikatakn kegiatan bersilaturahim, kalo kita kata berkenalan dengan hanya melihat muka, atau pergi ke rumah seseorang untuk berkenalan, ia juga boleh dikatakan bahawa berkenalan tersebut untuk mencari jodoh. Hee.. :))

Taaruf juga boleh dilakukan kalo kedua2 belah pihak keluarga setuju n tinggal menunggu keputusan samada anak mereka bersedia atau tidak untuk dikahwinkan - taaruf ini dilakukan agar mereka yang ingin dijodohkan saling berkenalan. :D

Taaruf ni sangatlah berbezaaa dengan bercinta, hee.. Taaruf memang diperintahkan oleh Rasulullah SAW bagi pasangan yang ingin bernikah. perbezaan tersebut dari segi tujuan dan juga manfaat. jika bercinta, ia lebih kepada nikmat yg sesaat, zina, dan maksiat. nauzubillah.. Taaruf jelas sekali tujuannya untuk mengetahui character calon pasangan.

Perbezaan bercouple dan Ta'aruf:

dalam bercinta, cara untuk mengetahui character pasangan dilakukan dengan tidak memenuhi kriteria brkenalan. cth, seorang yang ingin membeli motor secondhand, tapi dia xmelakukan pemeriksaan, dia cuma pegang or mencuba motor itu tanpa tahu keadaan enjinnya.

tapi, bg taaruf, ia seperti seorang mekanik motor yg terer menyemak mesin, sistem brek, sistem lampu dan elektrik, roda dan sebagainya. bila ternyata baik, maka barulah dia buat tawar-menawar. :D

ktika melakukan taaruf, pihak lelaki atau prempuan berhak untuk bertanya scara detail, seperti penyakit, tabiat buruk dan baik, sifat n sebagainya. kedua2 belah pihak kenalah jujur kerana kalo xjujur​​, boleh menyebabkan krisis kemudian hari. huhu

Proses Ta'aruf:

first skali, tidak boleh menunggu, cthnya, jarak antara taaruf dengan pernikahan selama satu tahun. prempuan diminta tunggu selama satu tahun kerana lelaki tersebut kena bekerja terlebih dahulu atau selesai study. ini jelas menzalimi permpuan trsebut kerana kena menunggu, dan ada jaminan kah bahawa saat proses menunggu itu tidak ada syaitan yang mengganggu? hmmm

second adalah tidak boleh malu-malu ^^, jadi kalau memang sudah bsedia untuk menikah sebaiknya segeralah bertaaruf. kalo malu maka akan prosesnya akn menjd lmbat.hee

adab selama bertaaruf iaitu jangan terburu-buru jatuh cinta. contohnya, ketika kita sudah dapat biodata pasangan, tanpa mengenal dia dgn lebih mendalam, tiba-tiba kita sudah yakin dengan pilihan itu. kan lebih bagus kalo mengenali dengan lebih mendalam mengenai keperibadian, fizikal, dan juga latar belakang keluarganya.. kan? :D

kesimpulannya, bercinta bukanlah cara Islam untk mencri teman hidup. jelas2 xboleh mengungkapkan perasaan sayang atau cinta kpd calon lelaki atau perempuan sblm menjadi rasmi. xkesahlah samada ungkapan di telefon, atau secara langsung, atau melalui mesej or surat kerana saling mengungkapkan cinta n sayang ini adalah hubungan asmara yg mngndungi makna brcinta yg boleh membawa kpd fitnah.. :)

If..

Assalamualaikum... holla~~ :D

okayy, yg kali ni nk share msj yg sy dpt dari kwan sy... so sweetttttt <3 <3

if one day you feel like crying, call me... i don't promise i'll make you laugh but i can cry with you.... if one day you want to run away don't be afraid to call me i don't promise to ask you to stop but i can be with you if one day you don't want to listen to anyone call me... i promise to be there for you and i promise to be very quiet but if one day you call and there is no answer come fast to me perhaps i need you..... (that is the day you might not see me again... forever....)

trust me buddy, i, miss finaz :P will always be your friend forever n ever.. eternity till jannah.. insyaAllah ^_^

Emak

Assalamualaikum.. holla~~ 

emm... post kali ni nk share msj yg kawan bg... sedihhh sgt... semoga jd pedoman buat kita.. :')

RENUNGKAN..... Kita lahir dari perut mak... Bila dahaga, yang susukan aku.... Mak... Bila lapar, yang suapkan aku.... Mak.. Bila keseorangan, yang sentiasa di sampingku.. .. Mak Kata mak, perkataan pertama yang aku sebut.... Mak Bila bangun tidur, aku cari.... Mak... Bila nangis, orang pertama yang datang .... Mak... Bila nak bermanja, aku dekati....... Mak.. Bila nak bergesel, aku duduk sebelah.. Mak.. Bila sedih, yang boleh memujukku hanya.. Mak.. Bila nakal, yang memarahi aku.... Mak.. Bila merajuk, yang memujukku cuma... Mak.. Bila melakukan kesalahan, yang paling cepat marah.... Mak.. Bila takut, yang tenangkan aku.... Mak... Bila nak peluk, yang aku suka peluk.... Mak.. Aku selalu teringatkan ..... Mak.. Bila sedih, aku mesti talipon... Mak.. Bila seronok, orang pertama aku nak beritahu... Mak.. Bila bengang.. aku suka luah pada.. Mak.. Bila takut, aku selalu panggil... "Mmaaakkkk! " Bila sakit, orang paling risau adalah.... Mak.. Bila nak exam, orang paling sibuk juga.... Mak.. Bila buat hal, yang marah aku dulu.... Mak.. Bila ada masalah, yang paling risau.... Mak.. Yang masih peluk dan cium aku sampai hari ni.. Mak.. Yang selalu masak makanan kegemaranku.... Mak.. kalau balik ke kampung, yang selalu bekalkan ulam & lauk pauk..... Mak.. Yang selalu simpan dan kemaskan barang-barang aku.... Mak.. Yang selalu berleter kat aku... Mak.. Yang selalu puji aku.... Mak.. Yang selalu nasihat aku...... Mak.. Bila nak kahwin..Orang pertama aku tunjuk dan rujuk..... Mak.. DAN BILA..... kita ada pasangan hidup sendiri.... Bila seronok, aku cari.... Pasanganku.. Bila sedih, aku cari..... Mak.. Bila berjaya, aku ceritakan pada.... Pasanganku.. Bila gagal, aku ceritakan pada.... Mak.. Bila bahagia, aku peluk erat....Pasanganku.. Bila berduka, aku peluk erat.... Emakku.. Bila nak bercuti, aku bawa.... Pasanganku.. Bila sibuk, aku hantar anak ke rumah.... Mak.. Selalu... Aku ingat pasanganku Selalu.. Mak ingat kat aku Bila-bila.... Aku akan talipon pasanganku Entah bila... aku nak talipon mak.. Selalu...aku belikan hadiah untuk pasanganku Entah bila.... aku nak belikan hadiah untuk emak Renungkan: "Kalau kau sudah habis belajar dan berkerja... bolehkah kau kirim wang untuk mak? "Mak bukan nak banyak... lima puluh ringgit sebulan pun cukuplah". Berderai air mata jika kita mendengarnya.......... Tapi kalau mak sudah tiada..... ..... "MAKKKKK...RINDU MAK..... RINDU SANGAT....!!" Berapa ramai yang sanggup menyuapkan ibunya...... Berapa ramai yang sanggup mencuci muntah ibunya...... Berapa ramai yang sanggup mengantikan lampin ibunya..... Berapa ramai yang sanggup membersihkan najis ibunya....... Berapa ramai yang sanggup membuang ulat dan membersihkan luka kudis ibunya.... Berapa ramai yang sanggup berhenti kerja untuk menjaga ibunya..... Dan akhir sekali berapa ramai yang sembahyang JENAZAH ibunya....... Di mana Kasih syang kita terutamanya kaum lelaki biar pun bujang atau sudah berkahwin MAK adalah yg pertama....tp di mana makna Mak dalam hati kita????

sedihkan? sayangilah n hargailah emak or ibu or ummi etc.. selagi mereka masih ada.. n sesiapa yg sudah tiada emak, sedekahlah doa selalu kpdnya... biar emak aman disana.. amin... :')

I Almost Do

     

I bet this time of night you're still up.
I bet you're tired from a long hard week.
I bet you're sitting in your chair by the window looking out at the city.
And I bet sometimes you wonder about me.

And I just wanna tell you
It takes everything in me not to call you.
And I wish I could run to you.
And I hope you know that every time I don't
I almost do,
I almost do.

I bet you think I either moved on or hate you
'Cause each time you reach out there's no reply.
I bet it never ever occurred to you that I can't say "Hello" to you
And risk another goodbye.

And I just wanna tell you
It takes everything in me not to call you.
And I wish I could run to you.
And I hope you know that every time I don't
I almost do,
I almost do.

Oh, we made quite a mess, babe.
It's probably better off this way.
And I confess, babe,
In my dreams you're touching my face
And asking me if I wanna try again with you.
And I almost do.

And I just wanna tell you
It takes everything in me not to call you.
And I wish I could run to you.
And I hope you know that every time I don't
I almost do,
I almost do.

I bet this time of night you're still up.
I bet you're tired from a long hard week.
I bet you're sitting in your chair by the window looking out at the city.
And I hope sometimes you wonder about me..

by: Taylor Swift

New Songs!!!!!!!!

Assalamualaikum.. holla~~ :D

post kali ni mengenai lagu2 baru lak yg hangat dimainkan di radio ^_^v

bykkk lagu baru tp sy akn post lirik2 lagu yg 4 ni dlu okay? xD disebabkan lirik plus genre muzik trsebut, sy suka! hee... okay? okay!

first song: That Power

And ooh, I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive
And ooh, I can fly, I can fly, I can fly
And ooh, I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive
And im loving every second minute hour bigger better stronger power

I got that power
I got that power
I got that power
Power power power

They call me will-A
Stay so cool, i'm chilley
I done made that malley
On my way to that valley
Used to have a piggy bank, but now I got that bigger bank.
Who who cares what the haters state
They hate on me cause we doing what they cant

I stay on that hussle, I flex that loose to muscle
Hate to bust your bubble
Im on that other level
Imma take it higher and high and high and higher
I stay and buy attire
Keep burning like that fire

And ooh, I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive
And ooh, I can fly, I can fly, I can fly
And ooh, I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive
And im loving every second minute hour bigger better stronger power

I got that power
I got that power
I got that power
Power power power

Yes yes yes y'all feeling funky fresh y'all
Work to be the best y'all
We're good under pressure y'all
Been through all that stress y'all
Get this off my chest y'all
Made it out in project where this project that's progress y'all

I beat it through my mama
I told her when I was younger
That I'ma be that number
One day I'll be that number 1
I take it higher and high and high and higher
I stay and buy attire
Keep burning like that fire

Whatever doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger
So I'ma get stronger
Call me like a veteran, veteran
I lock lock it down and go again
Call me like a veteran, veteran
I lock lock it down and go again

And ooh, I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive
And ooh, I can fly, I can fly, I can fly
And ooh, I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive
And im loving every second minute hour bigger better stronger power
 
I got that power
I got that power
I got that power
Power power power

And im loving every second minute hour bigger better stronger power
And im loving every second minute hour bigger better stronger power

By: Will.I.Am ft Justin Bieber

Second song: Alive

Let's make this fleeting moment last forever
So, tell me what you're waiting for?
I'm gonna keep it frozen here forever,
There's no regretting anymore.
It's worth the wait, even so far away.
I'm making the night mine until the day I die
No lights to brake when you're hanging by fate
You know what it feels like when you're dancing blind
All alone, just the beat inside my soul
Take me home, where my dreams are made of gold
In the zone where the beat is un-controlled.
I know what it feels like
Come on make me feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive alive alive alive
Alive!

Meet me under shining lights,
I've been waiting right here all my life
Feelings you can't deny that you're living, open up your eyes
And I just wanna sink into your crazy laughter
Come on make me feel until the pain don't matter
Every second here makes my heart beat faster
Finally think I found what I'm chasing after.
All alone, just the beat inside my soul
Take me home, where my dreams are made of gold
In the zone where the beat is un-controlled.
I know what it feels like
Come on make me feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive alive alive alive
Alive!

All alone, just the beat inside my soul
Take me home, where my dreams are made of gold
In the zone where the beat is un-controlled.
I know what it feels like
Come on make me feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive alive alive alive
Alive!
I know what it feels like
Come on make me feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive
Feel alive, feel alive alive alive alive
Alive! Feel alive!

by: Krewella

Third song: Thank You

Yo, this one right here is for all the drop-out-of-schoolers.
The future cougars. The Mary Jane abusers.
The ones that chose to be losers, for all the Misfit Kids and total outcasts MKTO.
This one's for you role models.

We are the ones, the ones you left behind.
Don't tell us how, tell us how to live our lives.
Ten million strong we're breaking all the rules.
Thank you for nothing, cause there's nothing left to lose.

Thank you for feeding us years of lies.
Thank you for the wars you left us to fight.
Thank you for the world you ruined overnight.
But we'll be fine, yeah we'll be fine.

Thank you for the world you broke,
Like yolk and it ain't no joke.
So cold and there ain't no coat,
Just me, my friends, my folks
And we gonna do what we like.
So raise that bird up high
And when they ask you why.
Just stand there laugh and smile.

We are the ones, the ones you left behind.
Don't tell us how, tell us how to live our lives.
Ten million strong we're breaking all the rules.
Thank you for nothing, cause there's nothing left to lose.

Na na na na
Na na na na na na
Na na na na
Na na na na na na
(Thank you)

Thank you for the times you said, "Don't make a sound."
Thanks for the ropes you used to hold us down.
Cause when I break through I'ma use them to reach the clouds.
We ain't comin' down (Come on). We ain't comin' down (Hey).

Look, ma, I finally made it,
This world is too damn jaded.
My life is just like Vegas, go big, go home get faded.
Been a problem since '92.
Can't shut me down curfew
And them girls I'll take a few.
Do what I wanna do.

We are the ones, the ones you left behind.
Don't tell us how, don't tell us how to live our lives.
Ten million strong we're breaking all the rules.
Thank you for nothing, cause there's nothing left to lose.

Na na na na (hey)
Na na na na na na
Na na na na
Na na na na na na
(Thank you)

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
From head to toe from the soul you ripped apart.
I say, "Thank you."
I say, "Thank you."
Yeah, yeah

We are the ones, the ones you left behind.
Don't tell us how, tell us how to live our lives.
Ten million strong we're breaking all the rules.
Thank you for nothing, cause there's nothing left to lose.

We are the ones, the ones you left behind.
Don't tell us how, tell us how to live our lives.
Ten million strong we're breaking all the rules.
Thank you for nothing, cause there's nothing left to lose.
(Thank you)

Na na na na (hey)
Na na na na na na
Na na na na
Na na na na na na
(Thank you)

Yo if you don't like what they tell you to do, don't do it.
If you don't want to be who they want you to be, screw it.
It's your world, it's your life and they ruined it.
Role models, tune in, turn up, drop out

by: MKTO

Forth song: Rule the World

I told,I told ,I told myself again
I'll never runnin' back on what I said
Tryin' not to run but you're so far away, so far away
Listen to the conscience in my head
I'm conscious but I'm lonely halfway dead
Tired of the thing you never, you never said
You never said

Our love was made to rule the world
You came and broke the perfect girl
Our love was made to rule the world
Our love was made to rule the world
You left wanting what we were
Our love was made to rule the world

Forget forever,forget forever
Forget you ever knew my name,my name,my name,my name

I know,i know, I know we can't pretend that we never lovers in the end
I've tired to tell myself that this pain would go away
Just go away

Our love was made to rule the world
You came and broke the perfect girl
Our love was made to rule the world
Our love was made to rule the world
You left wanting what we were
Our love was made to rule the world

Forget forever,forget forever
Forget you ever knew my name,my name,my name,my name
Forget forever

by: Selena Gomez

okay, that's all for now.. sy akn updatekn lg lagu2 baru... huuu sooo excited.. xD

bubye~~ :D

Peringatan untuk Kita Bersama :D

Assalamualaikum... holla~~ :D

okay, sy nk share satu ilmu yg sy dpt dri kwan sy.. insyaAllah ia boleh menjadi peringatan serta amalan untuk kita semua..^^

SEBELUM tidur, Rasulullah SAW berpesan kepada Aisyah ra:

"Ya Aisyah jangan engkau tidur sebelum melakukan empat perkara, iaitu: 1. Sebelum khatam Al-Quran 2. Sebelum membuat para Nabi memberimu syafaat di hari akhir 3. Sebelum para muslim meredhai kamu 4. Sebelum kau laksanakan haji dan umrah " Bertanya Aisyah: "Ya Rasulullah .. Bagaimana aku dapat melaksanakan empat perkara seketika?" Rasul tersenyum dan bersabda: 1. "Jika engkau tidur bacalah: Al Ikhlas tiga kali seakan-akan kau mengkhatamkan Al-Quran 2. "Membaca selawat untuk ku dan para nabi sebelum aku, maka kami semua akan memberi syafaat di hari kiamat" (3x) 3. "Beristighfarlah untuk para muslimin maka mereka akan meredhai kamu". Astaghfirulloohal adziim aladzii laa ilaaha illaa huwal hayyul qoyyuum wa atuubu ilaih (3x) 4. "Perbanyaklah bertasbih, bertahmid, bertahlil, bertakbir maka seakan - akan kamu telah melaksanakan ibadah haji dan umrah". Bismillaahir ROHMAANIR rohiim, Subhanalloohi walhamdulillaahi walaailaaha illalloohu alloohu akbar (3x)

harap2 dptlah menjadi amalan kita setiap malam... amin ^_^

Don't ever forget to say Alhamdulillah :D

Assalamualaikum.. holla~~ :D

Alhamdulillah, sy diberi kesempatan untk br-blog lagi pada hari ini.. hihi.. trima kasih ya Allah.. syukur yang tramat buat Mu.. :')

okay, harini sy nk ckp pasal Alhamdulillah.. apa itu Alhamdulillah? Alhamdulillah dari segi bahasa bermaksud segala puji hanya untuk Allah. Dari segi huraian plak, maksudnya segala yang kita ada, semuanya adalah milik Allah. 

apabila ada orang puji kita, xkesahlah org tu puji pandai, hebat, hensem, cantik atau kaya, kita kenalah kembalikan pujian tersebut kepada Allah dgn menyebut Alhamdulillah. kita tidak boleh merasa hebat dengan apa yang kita ada.. xkesahlah samada ilmu, harta dan sebagainya kerana semuanya datang dari Allah. ada orang yang merasa dia hebat kerana berjaya mendapat tempat pertama dalam setiap peperiksaan. seriously, siapakah yang telah memberikannya otak dan kepandaian sehingga dia berjaya memiliki kejayaan tersebut? jawapannya ialah Allah. sebenarnya, segala yang kita ada, semuanya milik Allah.

oleh itu,  ucapkanlah Alhamdulillah sebagai tanda kita bersyukur terhadap segala nikmat yang telah Allah berikan kepada kita. dan jgn sesekali merungut segala pemberian Allah.. xsusah pun nk sebut Alhamdulillah.. kan? ^_^